Examples of reflections–
I see your jaws clenching and you appear angry! Can you tell the group whats going on with you right now?
I see you shifting around in your chair, rather nervously. How is what Bob saying effecting you?
Bob, I see you nodding your head in agreement, with John. how do you feel about what he is saying?
Mike, I notice you shaking your head in diagreement with what Sam is saying. Can you tell Sam what you think?